Joanna Kerns

"Go there and become a regular". That is the last thing that I recall from my dream this morning/last night... that and Joanna Kerns. Yeah, the mom from Growing Pains. I do not remember what she was doing or why she was in my dream. Haven't seen Growing Pains in years and years. I guess she was just a fact that my brain organized in some new way last night/this morning. The only thing I can think of is that she was married to Alan Thicke on the show and I have seen a few pictures of Robin Thicke on people.com lately. Seems kind of strange for my brain to go three degrees of separation on me though. Very strange, indeed.

Maybe she was meant to be a mother figure and that was it. A gentle type of mother figure... and maybe I should take that quote's advice as I would from a mother. Not my mother but another mother. I mean, even though I am a grown up and recognize that my mom is not always wrong... she is often right... I still do not want to take dating advice from her. Immature - yes. Am I fine with that? Yes. (Mom is the one who asked me repeatedly to sign up for CatholicSingles.com... I did it to make her happy and have received zero... nada... no attention whatsoever. I am thinking I have completely wasted $60. )

What does "go there and become a regular" mean exactly? It is from an article I read not too long ago. About meeting guys... it said you should try to become a regular at the places where you are going to meet men. So... I'm going to tie together my Joanna Kerns motherly voice/inspiration/influence and the one specific line I remember from my dream/subconscious last night/this morning. The places I like... I'm going to start going back to just a bit more often. Even if it means going it alone.